Handy Tips To Handle Travel Objections From Your Partner

What to do if your partner doesn't want to travel abroad.

Holidays 26th Aug, 2021

Since it may be common to be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t appreciate traveling, you need to find ways to make it work for both of you. Although it may be challenging to connect, many people just don’t like traveling, there are still ways to benefit both of you. In this guide, we discuss what to do when your partner doesn’t love traveling. 

1. Take a Short Trip To Test The Waters: 

If your partner doesn’t travel or travels very little, he/she may have some preconceptions about it. He/she may think that traveling is not very fun, exhausting, or tedious. Although this may be a matter of opinion, you can do plenty to change their opinion. If your partner has told you about their low expectations of traveling, you may highlight why this is not the case. You probably shouldn’t go on a one-month expedition from the very beginning. It is more advisable to test the waters. Why not start with a day trip to have a romantic picnic in nature, or maybe spend a week in a place that is more adventurous than what your partner is used to? This lets them experience the travel life without asking to commit too much. 

2. Talk About Their Concerns About Travel:

Your partner may not want to travel for personal reasons. Finding out these causes can help you find a solution. They might think that traveling is tiring and that all they want is a beach holiday. This is not a big obstacle. So, why not plan a trip and choose to relax on the beach or participate in more adventurous activities afterward? If you don’t want to do the same thing all the time, don’t panic. You can commit to taking turns choosing activities and even setting aside a few hours, from time to time, to pursue your interests. If you like more active time, you can take a short trip on your own at any time, while your partner relaxes in the hotel. Don’t rush them to do anything they don’t want to. Take things one day at a time. Respect their views and needs, and try to see if you have found common ground on your travels. 

3. Enjoy Time Alone When You Are Apart: 

If you decide to go out alone and your partner stays home, this should not cause conflict. A healthy relationship includes trust and personal space. It is okay to be apart from time to time. Traveling alone can provide you and your partner with much-needed personal space. Make the most of your solo trip. Meet new people and have fun. Traveling alone has one significant advantage: you don’t have to compromise with anyone about where to go or what to do. For instance, if you decide at the last minute that you prefer to spend a day at the pool rather than doing some planned activity, then the choice is entirely yours. Traveling alone provides an unmatched sense of freedom. 

Although couples may have different perspectives on travel, it is fundamental to find common ground. As you may know, this can cause obstacles in relationships. If your partner doesn’t like traveling, you can try solo travel. Even if you are separated for some time, you can still have fun in each other’s company. If you have always dreamed of having a partner who loves to travel as much as you do, and who will accompany you every step of the way, but yours is not that kind of person, you must evaluate the relationship and determine if it is possible not to travel together. If you want to convince your partner to join your adventure, it is essential to be willing to compromise and listen to their advice as much as you can, just as you want them to listen to your advice.

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